i might be a little avoidant; spouse could possibly be a little anxious....it works tho
1. When I have a problem in life, I have to deal with it, especially if it's an emotional problem. I hate people who are playing the victim and can't stand being a burden on others.
2. When I'm in an intimate relationship, I feel suffocated by the demands, especially if the other person asks me how I'm feeling.
3. I feel most comfortable making major life decisions by myself. My interests, career, and hobbies are much more important to me than my relationships.
4. I am happy to meet the practical needs of my loved ones, but I'm uncomfortable when these same people need emotional support.
5. I'm okay with asking others to meet my wants (i.e. friendships, sex life, intimacy), but not my needs (practical, financial, survival). I can only rely on myself.
6. When my feelings are hurt, I retreat and process instead of reaching out to whoever hurt me.
7. I'm open to romantic relationships, but I find it hard to find someone who meets my standards for independence and self-sufficiency. When I find such a person I don't know how to get close to them.
8. I am very protective over my time and physical space. I need a predicable environment that's under my control.
9. I don't know what opening up means. I'm fine 900% of the time, and, when I'm not, I deal with it myself.
10. When I love someone, that means I don't put my needs on them or burden them in any way.
https://youtu.be/9iH1aoxl-R0i might be a little avoidant; spouse could possibly be a little anxious....it works tho 😆
1. When I have a problem in life, I have to deal with it, especially if it's an emotional problem. I hate people who are playing the victim and can't stand being a burden on others.
2. When I'm in an intimate relationship, I feel suffocated by the demands, especially if the other person asks me how I'm feeling.
3. I feel most comfortable making major life decisions by myself. My interests, career, and hobbies are much more important to me than my relationships.
4. I am happy to meet the practical needs of my loved ones, but I'm uncomfortable when these same people need emotional support.
5. I'm okay with asking others to meet my wants (i.e. friendships, sex life, intimacy), but not my needs (practical, financial, survival). I can only rely on myself.
6. When my feelings are hurt, I retreat and process instead of reaching out to whoever hurt me.
7. I'm open to romantic relationships, but I find it hard to find someone who meets my standards for independence and self-sufficiency. When I find such a person I don't know how to get close to them.
8. I am very protective over my time and physical space. I need a predicable environment that's under my control.
9. I don't know what opening up means. I'm fine 900% of the time, and, when I'm not, I deal with it myself.
10. When I love someone, that means I don't put my needs on them or burden them in any way.
https://youtu.be/9iH1aoxl-R0
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