This is NOT a contemplative thing. This is NOT a comparative thing. This is NOT a "I need to grow up now" thing. This is NOT a "reality check" thing. Saturn Return is tons of things showing up that you NEVER FREAKING SAW COMING. DYING, MARRYING, DIVORCING, CHANGING CAREERS, GOING BACK TO SCHOOL, MOVING. EVERY FREAKING LIFE CHANGE POSSIBLE. When you are in your 50's, you literally don't give a flying f*ck what others are doing. You're literally beyond that competitive spirit at that age. Saturn Return is something that FULLY CHANGES EVERYTHING. People are forced into your life. Changes happen almost against your will. You never wanted babies? Didn't believe in commitment? Thought you'd never marry? Oh well, now you're married and pregnant! Wanted to live in your neighborhood forever? Because you love your friends? Oh well, evicted! Or forced to move! Or all the people you wanted to stay near move. Happy you have long term friends? Oh well! Only the strongest survive in your life!! Many friends fall off the face of the Earth suddenly. You won't hear from them for the next 20 years if ever again. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b4gqayiS8N4