My mom is 85 and is now on oxygen because she had a hard time as a child with pneumonia and it scarred her lungs and now she needs oxygen boost. She is slowing down fairly quick now. My sister has schitzoeffective disorder and just flipped out and took off in our only car. The KS state patrol picked her up and she was in the hospital last I heard. A friend drove me about 2.5 hrs. to pick the car up today and I drove it back home. I can't deal with both at the same time, my sister has SS disability and some money in the bank. She needs to deal with her own disability herself and get help, while I take care of mom. She can't be here because I could never work, sleep or leave the house if she was here. She could flip out again. She could do anything while I slept--it's not safe for mom. It's been a tough year.