Here is a novel concept; the US government and all state government offices stop paying people not to work. Stop all programs for illegal aliens. They can return to their original countries of origin. If they stay, they can get food and relief from Non-government agencies that do not get any tax money. If a church wants to give out free food to illegals, then that is fine—no Tax money to any charities. Citizens are free to contribute whatever they want to these charities. The charities can hold bake sales or play for donations outside malls to raise money.
The churches can help the people in the church when they fall in hard times. This is what made the US an economic powerhouse. We took care of our own. I do not see any reason to support a criminal. If a person is in the US illegally, they can leave or starve. We have Veterans who are broken in Mind, Body, and Spirit, living on the streets and eating out of trash cans. At the same time, Illegal is living in Hotels and eating good food in restaurants. This is a moral outrage. Soldiers, Marines, Sailors, and Airmen offered up part of their lives to defend this country; we owe them better than letting them die in the streets they defended.
It is hard to think of the suffering this will cause, but the suffering will be self-inflicted. Anyone who wants to return to where they came from would not suffer any more than when they came here.