Alright so I censored it. We don't need the trouble, and you, whatever age you are, don't need the temptation when you open Xephula in front of people. 🤣 Anyway, I notice culture going through loops or back and forths between feminism and non-feminism. It's good to go back over some principles and foundations. I've getting into discussions I haven't heard in a long time now. Where women want to be in relationships and think that it's ok not to reciprocate with care, and yes, sex. I rarely encounter this among the traditional community, but newcomers, and perhaps the duality of female nature is even kind of creeping in to get into the feminist tendency to steer us back to what we've been working hard to getting away from. Husbands and wives should be having great sex lives anyway. That some act like it's a chore should raise caution. One side receiving all the care and affection is neither traditional, anti-feminist, or egalitarian. But it certainly is the nauseating mindset of feminism. If you are feminist and believe in the egalitarian mindset, feminism isn't egalitarian, although egalitarianism is debatably feminist-lite. I speak for myself when I say I'm not egalitarian either. My view is that nature isn't equal. But I do believe in equal opportunities if people have a strong passion for something. https://archive.org/details/principles101/page/n26/mode/2up -Red Ranger